In The Scarlet Letter, the main character, Hester has a lot of pride in something that many in that time period would be ashamed of. By her making the Scarlet letter so beautiful you can tell she has a lot of pride and thats she doesn't regret her wrong doings. I have found myself relating a lot to Hester becuase I try to find the best in all the situations that i have been in. Reading The Scarlet Letter I have realized that everything happens for a reason and you just have to go with it. There are many things in life that have no right or wrong explanation.
Pride is also a way of self confidence. Knowing that you have done something wrong but you are proud of it definately shows that you don't care about what others think. High school has a lot of juding and gossiping, but a lot of it comes from the low self confidence of others. Everyone makes mistakes here and there and theres nothing that you can do about it. What i don't understand is why do so many people care about those mistakes? The Scarlet letter was a symbol that showed people a mistake you made. Even though things were different from now and back then i still think that same idea applies, why does it matter what mistakes another person makes?
Being a high school student I have come to realize that its inevitable for girls and guys not to judge another group or clique, or its inevtiable to make a mistake. Things happen for a reason but if you have pride in yourself and you don't regret the "mistakes" that you make, then being a strong human being is in your future.
i am also a big believer in the saying everything happens for a reason. your actions are an expression of you and people dont realize that. i also agree that someone spreading a rumor or talking about someone else is just your lack of self confidence. i agree 100%.
ReplyDeleteExcellent points, Keri. It's amazing how much weight is put on how much a person feels bad about something they have done when wrongdoings are committed. It reminds me a lot of the steroid scandal in baseball and other sports: the players who confessed got in trouble but were ultimately exhonerated in public opinion, while the people (like Roger Clemens and Barry Bonds) who felt no remorse and continued to lie have not gotten into trouble (yet), but they are absolutely reviled in public.
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