Trust is something that I have always taken seriously. Once someone loses my trust, gaining it back is hard. I have found it hard to trust a lot of people. Only my closest friends really have my trust. Lately I have found that you cannot trust anyone because, in high school things spread faster than you can blink. I have found myself to be a very trust worthy person because I know the feeling of having your trust betrayed, it really is the worst feeling.
My friends are some of the most trusting people I know. I'm sure that everyone says that about all their friends.I truly believe that my friends are the best. I have lost trust in a lot of people, and only one of them has been able to gain it back entirely. I tend to not let many people in because of things I may hear about them or just simply because I don't want to be let down.
Forgiving is the hardest part about gaining trust back. Learning to forgive is never an easy and hurts emotionally. I have learned from experience that once trust is lost it is never gained back completely. I find it hard to trust people because of experiences that I have gone through and realized it is not worth getting hurt in the end. On the positive side, I do believe that it is necessary to have people you can trust so that you can go to them in a time of need.
I agree with this whole post. It is necesarry to trust a few specific people, but it is nearly impossible to trust everyone. I feel that i have two people that i can completly trust.
ReplyDeleteI've gone through life trying to trust people and for a while it worked. I feel that i started distrusting some people in middle school and it just gets worse with age. I lost the trust of someone in this class during middle school, and i've tried to trust him but i'm still not sure that I can. You are right in saying "in high school things spread faster than you can blink." It sucks but it's completly true.
I totally agree Keri. Its really hard to find people that you can trust 100% of the time. And I think everyone likes to believe that their friends are the best, and that they are always trustworthy, but I think everyone has lost trust in a friend before. Like you said, once trust is lost it is never gained back completely, and I think its sad how often people lose trust in eachother.
ReplyDeleteI agree with all of you. Trust is an incredibly important aspect of human interaction. Without trust, very little would get done in the world because people would refuse to deal with one another. This is a great theme to write a paper about!
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